Embracing the Cactus By Ericah
Gwetai
Printed by Mambo Press, Senga Road, Gweru, 2012
Isbn: 9780797450653
144 pages
Printed by Mambo Press, Senga Road, Gweru, 2012
Isbn: 9780797450653
144 pages
Reviewer: Memory Chirere
What
happens when a married city man marries a second wife without the knowledge and
consent of his people and that of his rural wife? Turmoil and tenacity. Such an
experience is at the centre of Embracing the Cactus, a novel by Ericah Gwetai
nee Mugadzaweta. She is mother to late writer, Yvonne Vera.
It
is around 1950 and train driver, Sabelo Moyo meets Janet Gumede, a very
beautiful Bulawayo nanny at Shangani railway station. They fall for each other
instantly. Within a year, they get married. But Sabelo is already married to
Immaculate with whom he has three children. Immaculate stays in Sabelo’s rural
home not far from Bulawayo. Sabelo and Janet are fully aware of what they are
doing but are not prepared to follow tradition.
When
Immaculate eventually learns about it, she becomes bitter because tradition has
not been followed. She has been taken for granted. The headman in Sabelo’s own
village explains what should have happened: “Polygamy is part of our culture.
There are, however, certain procedures and rituals to be followed and
undertaken by a man who intends to take in a second wife. First… the man should
send his sisters to inform his first wife about his intention… If she allows
her husband to take another wife a ritual is performed… A goat is slaughtered
and shared equally between the first wife and her rival. The goat symbolises
the man that the women would share equally… the ritual is called ukuhlanganiswa meaning to be united with
your rival.”
Ill
luck strikes and Sabelo loses his job in Bulawayo. He has no choice but to take
Janet and her soft urban children to face Immaculate and her rural children. A bitter turf war begins. Janet and her children are declared trespassers
in Immaculate’s compound. Immaculate decides where they are going to be sheltered
temporarily. They have to seek her clearance whenever they have visitors or
want to have a family function. Immaculate decides that since she is Sabelo’s
legitimate wife, she can have Sabelo in her bedroom six nights a week only allowing
him to see Janet once a week.
One
day Janet travels on the scotch cart from the bus stop with one of Immaculate’s
sons. From nowhere, the boy rudely tells Janet that she must get ready for
him in the event that Sabelo dies or becomes invalid. Janet is shocked and
notices that the boy may actually rape her. She escapes into the bushes, calling
for help. The boy pursues his father’s illegitimate wife. His mother has been
saying many nasty things about this woman from the city. As they are doing that
Janet tragically falls into a smouldering saw mill dump and is burnt severely.
Her legs have to be amputated.
As
if that is not enough, Janet is rejected by her own daughter, Precious. Her
complaint is: Mother, why did you marry father when you knew that she was
married to another woman? Precious has a meeting with Immaculate just to say: I
am sorry that our father went on to marry our mother, violating your own
marriage. Precious sides with Immaculate against her own mother. Eventually she
escapes to Australia where she becomes a nurse. And when there is turmoil in
her family back home, she writes a letter clearly stating: GIVE ME A BREAK! How many daughters out there can stand with their mother's love rivals against their very own mother? How many daughters can severely punish their own mothers for marrying their fathers?
This
book is going to give all those readers and scholars who are into
feminism, womanism and related ideas something to think about. Here is an African tradition ukuhlanganiswa that demands that women be respected
and consulted in matters that involve them. Yet more often we are told that it
is tradition that oppresses women when in most cases it is actually abuse of tradition by the uncaring that brings women down.
Embracing
the Cactus is Gwetai’s debut novel and her third book. Previously, she wrote Realities, a book of short stories
and Petal Thoughts, a must read biography of her late daughter, Dr. Yvonne
Vera. The biography could well be a ‘first’ ever to be written by a mother
about her child. She died in April 2005. To date, the late Yvonne Vera
could easily be the most outstanding woman writer from Zimbabwe writing in
English.
However,
readers must be warned that although Ericah Gwetai is mother to Yvonne Vera,
she is her own woman. Here you do not find Yvonne’s intense prose poetry. What is on offer here is a
deeper and more amazing understanding of African cultural intricacies, rendered
in a far simpler and unaffected prose. Her episodic chapters and very
unpredictable plot constitute the Ericah Gwetai signature.
However,
the production of Embracing the Cactus is not impressive. On pages 2, 3, 5, 18,114
and in so many other places, the paragraphing and annotation are not regular. One
wonders if the editors and typesetters ignored the fact that this book would
definitely attract an international audience. The cover too was rather hastily
done. If the artist was going for an abstract representation, then it was
overdone. Besides, it is not any abstract painting that can smoothly transform into a useful
picture for a book cover.